As an individual with Mars in Virgo, you are a disciplined and highly-skilled lover. You work hard at perfecting your bedroom skills and pleasing your partner. You are great at techniques – you’ve read the books and know the right moves and correct hot spots. But sometimes, you need to be reminded that there’s more to lovemaking than manuals and techniques!
With Mars in Virgo, your sexual make-up has a double ‘c’ rating – careful and cautious. You are very discriminating about who you sleep with. You would rather be celibate than accept second best. You don’t usually rush into sexual relations on the first date. You like to get to know a person before you jump into the cot with them, and safe, responsible sex is a major priority for you. Very health-conscious, you see sex as an essential part of your health and fitness regime.
It relieves stress, raises your cardiovascular levels, and promotes feelings of wellbeing and togetherness – and you don’t even need a doctor’s prescription! However, you cannot really enjoy sex unless you feel secure within a committed relationship.
Contents
- 1 Self-assertion for a Mars in Virgo
- 2 Additional Information on Women with Mars in Virgo
- 3 You and Mars in Aries
- 4 You and Mars in Taurus
- 5 You and Mars in Gemini
- 6 You and Mars in Cancer
- 7 You and Mars in Leo
- 8 You and Mars in Virgo
- 9 You and Mars in Libra
- 10 You and Mars in Scorpio
- 11 You and Mars in Sagittarius
- 12 You and Mars in Capricorn
- 13 You and Mars in Aquarius
- 14 You and Mars in Pisces
Self-assertion for a Mars in Virgo
With Mars in Virgo, you can have difficulty asserting yourself firmly and openly. If you do break out and state your feelings, you often feel guilty afterwards at your perceived lack of self-control. Learn to state your needs clearly and forcefully (writing them down can help), and don’t be shy about discussing your sexual preferences with your partner. Repressed desires can too easily turn into sexual hang-ups.
Additional Information on Women with Mars in Virgo
A Mars in Virgo woman is usually attracted to a hardworking, conscientious man with one or more planets in Virgo (or Capricorn and Taurus, which are the other earth signs). A Mars in Virgo woman appreciates a man with an earthy sexuality, a self-deprecating sense of humor, and a resourceful approach to life (and sex).
You and Mars in Aries
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Aries combination, you are turned on by finesse, subtlety, and self-control – and they are just so loud and rough and uncouth! With this combination, it’s often best to throw out the sex and keep the friendship instead.
You and Mars in Taurus
The Mars in Virgo and Mars in Taurus combination makes for wholesome, uncomplicated lovemaking. Their earthy sensuality is a good foil for your more clinical approach to sex. They help you get more in touch with your physical senses, while you can teach them a few fancy new techniques. One tip though – make sure you’re both well washed and fed beforehand, as neither of you performs well on an empty stomach.
You and Mars in Gemini
The Mars in Virgo and Mars in Gemini partnership often results in friction in bed because your approaches to lovemaking are so different. You are into thorough preparation, whereas they are slap-dash and impulsive. You conscientiously work on perfecting your sexual routine, whereas they are always changing theirs.
You and Mars in Cancer
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Cancer relationship, you only want to do it when the setting is just right and you’re 100% prepared. They only like to do it when they’re in the mood. Therefore, lovemaking can be rather spasmodic. The one consolation is that when you do manage to synchronize your moods and schedules, it’s well worth the wait.
You and Mars in Leo
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Leo combination, you prize modesty and discretion, and their showy confidence can leave you feeling nervous and inadequate in bed. You also become aroused in very different ways. (You sit in bed studying The Joy of Sex, while they are dirty dancing on the tabletop – facing a mirror of course.) Unless you can get your nose out of the book, and they can drag themselves away from the mirror, sexual satisfaction will be a solitary event.
You and Mars in Virgo
In the double Mars in Virgo relationship, you have similar approaches to sex and view it as a vital ingredient in a healthy and organized lifestyle. A weekend away at a health resort, getting frisky in the spa, and reciting passages from sex manuals are all the extra stimulation you need to get your respective hormones racing.
You and Mars in Libra
Mars in Virgo and Mars in Libra both set very high standards in the bedroom. Spotless hygiene, good manners, and refined technique are required before you can relax enough to let go and really enjoy making love together. Minor irritations? You can be overcritical of them, and they annoy you with their preoccupation with outer appearances.
You and Mars in Scorpio
For Mars in Virgo and Mars in Scorpio, you both have a penchant for privacy and discretion, but your sexual natures are very different. They like to get down and get dirty, while you prefer to keep it clean and healthy. For them, sex is the ultimate emotional release, whereas for you, it is a vigorous and invigorating exercise.
You and Mars in Sagittarius
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Sagittarius relationship, their predatory approach can see you running for cover. Once they catch you, you are a willing captive – for a while. But you have contrasting approaches to lovemaking. You prefer to make love in discreet privacy, and so their preference for spontaneous outdoor sexual escapades can leave you anxious and unresponsive.
You and Mars in Capricorn
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Capricorn combination, when it comes to lovemaking, you are both very cautious. But in each other’s arms, you feel as comfortable and safe as you can expect in a sexual relationship. If you can resist the inclination to complacency, this makes for a compatible, durable, and satisfying physical union.
You and Mars in Aquarius
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Aquarius relationship, the attraction is usually a mental one. You find each other stimulating intellectual company, but once things get physical, major differences emerge. Their free-wheeling sexual ways make you feel insecure and uneasy, and your close attention to detail makes them feel like an insect being examined under a microscope. Before long, they escape to more bohemian pastures and you are off looking for a more discriminating mate.
You and Mars in Pisces
In the Mars in Virgo and Mars in Pisces relationship, there is an undeniable attraction, but you operate on completely different sexual wavelengths. Your wavelength is clear, sharp, focused, and well-ordered, while theirs is vague, intuitive, emotional, and disorganized. So sex is usually a hit-and-miss affair as you scramble to tune in to each other’s needs and desires.
Remember, astrology is just a guide, and individual experiences may vary. What matters most is open and honest communication with your partner, as well as a willingness to explore and adapt to each other’s desires and needs.