Methodical, practical, and modest, Virgo represents the side of our human nature that finds joy in serving, honor in duty, and pleasure in organization and analysis. As the new moon moves under this sign, we have the opportunity to examine our own Virgo tendencies and how they can help or hinder us.
Virgo’s High Standards
During this half of the cycle, let’s focus on Virgo’s high standards. Critical and exacting, Virgo pours over each and every detail, no matter how small. This gift for precision and logic gives Virgo a great talent for problem solving. However, it can also become burdensome for both herself and those close to her.
On her worst days, Virgo can be extremely critical. As a perfectionist to a fault, her well-intentioned feedback can become exhausting. Others may perceive her nit-picking as hurtful and judgmental, but we must remember that the standards we hold for ourselves may not be the same as those held by others.
But as harsh as she can be on those around her, no one is harsher towards Virgos than themselves. Their inner dialogue can be filled with questions of what they “should” be doing, how something “should” be handled, and who they “should” be.
The Burden of Perfectionism
Perfectionism can be truly damaging as it immobilizes us. Sometimes, making a decision and taking action requires a bit of faith. Not everything can be calculated, analyzed, and ordered into a neat package. The criticisms we express towards others are only reflections of our own insecurities. We dislike in others what we dislike in ourselves. And what Virgo expresses verbally is just a fraction of the burden she carries within. The weight of all this negativity towards oneself can take a heavy toll.
The Virgo New Moon Tarot Spread
Under the Virgo new moon, let’s examine how this perfectionistic drive manifests within ourselves. What are the negative emotions within us that tell us we are not good enough? How are they affecting our lives? And what do they reveal about us?
To start off, let’s go through our decks and find the Hermit card, which corresponds to the Virgo zodiac sign. We’ll use this as a significator to help us focus our thoughts on this Virgo new moon.
Shuffle the cards as usual, then draw and lay them out as pictured.
- Where am I too critical of others? – In what ways have I been too harsh on others? Where can I be kinder to others?
- Where am I too hard on myself? – In what ways have I been too harsh on myself? Where can I be kinder to myself?
- What is the effect of my perfectionism? – What things, positive or negative, does my sense of order bring me?
- What big picture am I missing? – What am I missing out on? What am I not seeing?
Let the wisdom of the cards guide you as you reflect on these questions. Remember, it’s important to be kind to yourself and others, recognizing that perfection is not always attainable. Embrace the imperfections and focus on personal growth during this Virgo new moon phase.