The Art of Synastry: Understanding the Chemistry Between Two People

“Synastry is the batter, The Composite chart is the cake”

Do you ever wonder what makes a relationship click? How some people just seem to effortlessly understand each other while others constantly clash? The study of synastry might hold the answers you’re looking for. Synastry is a method used to analyze the chemistry between two individuals by layering their birth charts on top of each other. It reveals how people relate to one another, the level of attraction, and the challenges they may face. But before diving into synastry, it’s essential to start with an individual birth chart analysis. This provides insights into personal needs and the potential for maintaining a healthy relationship.

Key Elements in Synastry

When it comes to synastry, certain factors play a significant role in determining compatibility. Here are some of the key elements to consider:

1) Planetary house overlays: The overlay of planets in specific houses (1st, 5th, 7th, 8th, and 9th) is crucial in determining compatibility.

2) Planetary aspects: The aspects between the planets in both charts are essential indicators of the relationship dynamics.

3) Angles in the houses & aspects: Pay attention to the angles and their aspects, as they provide insights into the strength of the bond between individuals.

4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles: Conjunctions to the axis and angles indicate a strong bond between individuals.

5) Important Planets: Moon, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, Saturn, North Node, and Juno hold significance in determining compatibility.

6) Conjunct-aspects and their quantity: Consider the number of conjunct-aspects between individuals, as they can either enhance or create disharmony.

7) Aspects from Saturn/Jupiter to the rulers of the other person’s houses: Pay attention to how the rulers of the houses interact with the rulers of the other person’s houses.

8) How the rulers of the houses interact: The interaction between the rulers of the houses can provide clues about the dynamics of the relationship.

It’s important to note that a harmonious synastry does not necessarily guarantee a lasting relationship. Too many trines and sextiles may create immense comfort and ease but can eventually lead to boredom. On the other hand, a healthy dose of squares and oppositions can trigger growth and evolution. The presence of challenge and triggers is essential for personal development. So, it’s crucial to strike a balance between comfort and growth.

The Significance of Houses in Synastry

Understanding the meaning of houses can provide valuable insights into the dynamics of a relationship. Here’s a brief overview of the importance of each house:

1st House: Physical attraction and overall agreement of personality.

5th House: Romantic and creative compatibility, self-expression, and shared enjoyment.

7th House: Commitment, love, and partnership. Cooperation and relating to one another.

8th House: Shared resources, sexual compatibility, intimacy, trust.

9th House: Long-term goals, visions, beliefs, and hopes for the future.

Key Factors in Relationship Analysis

To gain a deeper understanding of a relationship, consider the following factors:

• Sexual attraction: Look for Venus-Mars aspects, placements in the 1st, 5th, and 8th houses.

• Romantic sexual attraction: Pay attention to Eros-Cupido aspects, aspects to the Ascendant or 1st house.

• Marital material: Examine Venus, Ascendant, Venus-Juno, Vertex, Moon, and Descendant.

• Understanding of communication: Consider the placement of Mercury and its aspects.

• Type of communicating: Observe Mercury’s aspects to other planets.

• The way you feel around each other: Look for Moon aspects and placement in the 4th house.

• Ability to settle down: Examine the 2nd, 4th, and 7th houses.

• Ability to last: Positive Saturn aspects indicate long-lasting relationships.

• Unconditional love: Factors such as Neptune, Moon, Venus, Chiron, Vertex, and Amor contribute to unconditional love.

• Sexual issues: Harsh Lilith, Saturn, Mars, and Venus aspects may indicate sexual challenges.

• The theme of the relationship: Pay attention to the most exact aspects.

• Karma: Consider the influence of North Node, South Node, Saturn, and the 12th house.

• Soulmate or Twinflame: Look for Neptune, 12th house, Vertex, and the Nodes.

• Past life connections: Examine South Node, Saturn, and the 12th house.

• Turning points: Pholus in synastry can indicate significant turning points in the relationship.

Understanding Planetary House Overlays

The placement of planets within houses offers valuable insights into various aspects of the relationship. Each planet carries its significance. Here’s a quick breakdown:

• Sun: Highlighted area of life; represents the “sunshine” in the relationship.

• Moon: Reflects how individuals feel about each other.

• Venus: Indicates where love and affection are expressed.

• Mars: Reflects the energy and passion between individuals.

• Mercury: Stimulates intellect and creativity.

• Jupiter: Brings luck and expansion.

• Saturn: Represents areas where restrictions and lessons are learned.

• Uranus: Indicates innovation and unpredictability.

• Neptune: Reflects the escape from reality and dreamy experiences.

• Pluto: Signifies transformation and deep emotional connections.

Exploring Lilith and Love Asteroids

Looking beyond the traditional planets, factors like Lilith and love asteroids can provide additional insights. Lilith represents the hidden or repressed aspects of a relationship. Love asteroids can highlight specific themes or qualities within a relationship. They add an element of fun and curiosity.

The Key to Long-Lasting Love

For a relationship to stand the test of time, certain aspects contribute to its longevity:

• A harmonious aspect between the Sun/Moon midpoints.

• Personal planets conjunct the Sun/Moon midpoint.

• A higher number of harmonic aspects than hard aspects (trines and sextiles).

• Harmonic Saturn aspects between individuals.

• Harmonious Jupiter aspects (note that square aspects may indicate potential challenges).

Synastry Aspects for Communication, Unconditional Love, Good Sex, and Marriage Material

To foster better communication, unconditional love, a fulfilling sex life, and marriage potential, consider the following synastry aspects:

For Good Communication:

• Mercury trine/sextile Mercury
• Mercury trine/sextile Venus
• Moon trine/sextile Mercury
• Moon trine/sextile Pluto
• Moon trine/sextile/conjunct Moon
• Venus trine/sextile Venus
• Pluto trine/conjunct Mercury
• Jupiter trine/sextile Mercury
• Mercury conjunct NorthNode
• Mercury conjunct IC

For Unconditional Love:

• Venus trine/sextile Chiron
• Neptune trine/sextile Chiron
• Neptune trine/sextile Venus
• Venus trine/sextile Saturn
• Venus trine/sextile Pluto
• Moon trine/sextile Pluto
• Sun conjunct Pallas
• Sun conjunct Vesta

For Good Sex:

• Mars in 5th or 8th house
• Mars conjunct an angle
• Mars trine/sextile Moon
• Sun trine/sextile Mars
• Venus conjunct/trine/sextile Mars
• Venus conjunct/trine/sextile Pluto
• ASC conjunct/trine/sextile ASC
• Harmonious aspect between 5th and 8th ruler
• Harmonious aspect between 5th and 1st ruler
• Eros-Psyche, Eros-Venus, Eros-Mars, Eros-ASC
• Eros conjunct Lilith
• Amor conjunct Lilith

For Marriage Material:

• Juno conjunct/trine/sextile Juno
• South Node/North Node conjunct Juno
• Juno conjunct/trine/sextile POF
• Juno conjunct/trine/sextile/square Venus
• Vertex conjunct/trine/sextile Juno
• Vertex conjunct/trine ASC
• Vertex conjunct/trine Vertex
• POF conjunct/trine POF
• Venus conjunct POF
• Moon conjunct Moon
• Moon conjunct/trine/sextile Venus
• DSC trine DSC
• DSC trine Vertex
• Cupido conjunct POF

Other Good Synastry Aspects:

• ASC conjunct/trine/sextile ASC
• ASC falling into partner’s 5th or 7th house
• 7th house lord falling into partner’s 5th, 7th, or 8th house
• Positive Venus aspects to partners’ Pluto, Venus, Neptune, Sun, Moon, Saturn
• MC-ASC connections and positive aspects
• Planets in partner’s 4th house
• Positive aspects to 2nd and 6th house lords of partner
• Having Mercury in the same sign
• Squares to the Nodes indicate star-crossed lovers
• Aspects to the Nodes indicate a deep connection and bond
• Harmonic Sun-Moon aspect
• Harmonic Moon-Venus aspect
• Trines or sextiles to Chiron
• Trines or sextiles to Saturn
• Moon conjunct DSC
• 4th house ruler making a harmonious aspect to the 11th house ruler

A Personal Perspective on Synastry

It’s important to remember that each individual is unique, and therefore, an individual birth chart analysis is crucial to understanding personal needs, reactions, and potential fulfillment within a relationship. However, from my perspective, the following aspects are vital:

• Harmonious Moon-Moon aspect: Understanding each other’s emotions is crucial for a strong foundation.

• Harmonious Moon-Venus aspect: Indicates a deep emotional connection and a natural flow of love.

• Harmonious Moon-Mercury aspect: Enhances communication and understanding.

• Harmonious Moon-Mars aspect: Stimulates energy and passion within the relationship.

• Harmonious Moon-Saturn aspect: Provides stability and the ability to weather challenges together.

• Harmonious Mars-Saturn aspect: Encourages teamwork, stamina, and mutual support.

• Harmonious Venus-Mercury aspect: Enhances the expression of love and intellectual compatibility.

• Harmonious ASC aspects: Promotes a harmonious and balanced connection.

• Positive house overlays: Indicates shared expectations and a sense of belonging.

• Harmonious Saturn aspects: Acts as glue that holds the relationship together.

Remember, perfection in synastry is unattainable. All relationships will have their share of friction and challenges. However, having these key aspects in your synastry can greatly enhance your compatibility and contribute to a successful partnership.

So, the next time you find yourself wondering about the chemistry between two people, delve into the world of synastry and explore the fascinating dynamics that make relationships thrive or flounder.