Lilith in the 7th House ⚸♎
When Lilith finds its place in the 7th house of a natal chart (House of relationships, commitments, marriage), it often brings about struggles associated with the themes of this house. The nature of Lilith becomes apparent through the native’s partnerships since the 7th house opposes the 1st house in astrology. Interestingly, individuals with this placement have difficulty recognizing their Lilith nature within themselves. Consequently, Lilith attracts people into their lives who compel them to confront their own Lilith traits.
One common manifestation for those with Lilith in the 7th house is the tendency to attract hidden enemies, often referred to as “frenemies.” These individuals masquerade as friends, but secretly speak ill of the native. Many of the social relationships formed by those with this placement consist of people who envy them for their achievements or successes, leading to the unfortunate experience of being backstabbed 💔🔪.
Another manifestation associated with this placement is the attraction to individuals of a darker nature or those with dominant Lilith characteristics. Since Lilith embodies a blend of Pluto and Uranus energies, individuals with this placement may find themselves in the company of people obsessed with them or even individuals prone to violence. Personally, I can’t help but speak from experience when it comes to attracting undesirable people into one’s life :´) 😭
Furthermore, individuals with Lilith in the 7th house may find themselves entangled in situations where they become “sidepieces” or find themselves involved with people who cheat on their partners 🐤😭. During the early stages of dating, they might discover that their potential partner is already in a committed relationship or even married. Surprisingly, their potential partners may choose to leave their current partners for them, as Lilith in the natal chart represents the type of partner who would be willing to abandon everything just to be with them.
Although this might initially sound positive, it’s important to note that Lilith represents the area where we feel like outcasts. Consequently, individuals with this placement often attract emotionally unavailable partners or individuals struggling with drug addictions.
How to Heal from this Placement?
✨ Establish Healthy Boundaries ✨ I cannot emphasize enough how crucial it is for those with this placement to learn how to set boundaries. When Lilith is in the 7th house, it’s easy to find yourself in co-dependent relationships where the other person may exert control or manipulate you for their own gain. If you’re not careful, you may even experience abusive encounters. By embracing your own dark nature and recognizing Lilith in others, you can stop attracting unavailable individuals or those who do not have your best interests at heart. Through this process, Lilith empowers you in your relationships.
Learn to Embrace Your Sexual Nature 🐍🍎 Similar to individuals with Lilith in the 1st house, those with Lilith in the 7th house exude an undeniable sexual energy. No matter how much you try to suppress it, others tend to perceive this energy, whether consciously or subconsciously.
Remember, healing and growth are possible. By acknowledging and understanding the influence of Lilith in your relationships, you can navigate these dynamics more confidently and create healthier connections that align with your wellbeing.
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